Ask your HR department for some resources that are readily available. Personality or behaviour assessments are often provided and popular. The premise for personality assessment is to give team members a better awareness of their behaviours and how they may be viewed by others. Having a better understanding of your teammate is viewed as helping team members work together better.
Here are five tools that I have experienced at different organizations:
- DISC: assessment based on four different personality traits. Promoted as a means to build more effective relationships in the workplace
- True Colour Key System uses four colours to describe and explain temperaments and personality types with the goal of building more effective relationships
- Strength Finder 2.0 by Tom Path - a book that helps you discover your talents and better leverage them. Being self aware is key for leaders. Each leader's different strength combination were shared as a means for better awareness
- Myers-Briggs Type Indicator with 16 personality types. It gives a description of your personality type when you're at your best and when under stress and not working at your best.
- Experiential Training: there are a wide range of services who offer different elements to have team members work together. It included a wide range of activities specifically designed to work with people's dislikes e.g. we had to climb 50 foot poles, work in the dark, and play games under extreme elements such rain and mud. Think of the activities done in the reality show, Survivor. It was very similar. I loved the experience and I left with a greater appreciation for a wide range of people. It is an more expensive option and not often frequently in my experience.
Scenario: I had two team members who were generally in conflict. It was evident that they were very different people just by looking at their style of dress and the work spaces. One individual had a wide assortment of whimsical elements in her workspace and a kitten calendar. The other team member was more spartan and had a NASA calendar.
Myers-Briggs: Their different approaches frustrated each other and projects were suffering as a result. Thankfully they realized this and when I suggested that all three of us take the Myers-Briggs assessment, they were were open and willing to do it.
The result was that the two individuals scored exactly the same except for one indicator: one was an introvert and the other was an extrovert.
Myers-Briggs: Their different approaches frustrated each other and projects were suffering as a result. Thankfully they realized this and when I suggested that all three of us take the Myers-Briggs assessment, they were were open and willing to do it.
The result was that the two individuals scored exactly the same except for one indicator: one was an introvert and the other was an extrovert.
- The introvert was ISFJ (Introverted sensing feeling judging and is often summarized as the "Protector." Her celebrity counterpart was Mother Teresa
- The other team member was ESFJ (extroverted sensing feeling judging) and can be summarized as the Provider personality because people with this personality type are interested in taking care of others in practical ways. Celebrity counterpart is Barbara Walters
What did not work well?
True colour key system's success has not been largely successful in my experience. I've been at two different organizations where this has been facilitated and both were not particularly successful. People have a tendency to rate different personality types as superior to others. Even though the facilitator emphasized that each "colour" has inherent strengths and weaknesses, the sessions seem to be more divisive than creating better working relationships.
One staff member, for example had a rating for Green at the highest range (24) and was seated next to a Gold who also rated at the highest range (referred to as a 24 karat gold personality). They both had nothing but disdain for Oranges who were far too "flighty and disorganized" for their preferences. The Blues were tolerated because they were seen as "friendly."
Workplace relationships did not improved and this session actually created more conflict as people would say such statements as, "I'm a 24 karat gold. Deal with it," or "It's not easy being Green. But I will continue to ensure all processes are adhered to for the benefit of all."
People are complex and nuanced and working with them can be challenging. It is also very rewarding. Make the effort to know and understand people. Find out their pain points and what makes their hearts sing. Be kind and generous and focus on the positive. Recognize that people won't generally change unless you change your approach. You need to be flexible in your approach (this is not the same as weak). If you are working with a Green for example, focus on the process and how it will improve things. You may explain the exact some situation to an Orange but focus on how things will be fun, and the processes will support them in an emergency.
And my final point is never give up on an individual. If they drive you crazy, give some thought as to why they push your buttons and try to adapt your approach. Make sure you spend ample time with the people who you are aligned and develop them. Success breeds success and can often help that who you don't feel an alignment to be more willing to accept your leadership. We can discuss conflict and mitigating it in future discussions.